My First Time Using a Male Masturbator: Honest Thoughts & Surprises

Introduction

Let’s get one thing straight—I’ve always been a hands-on guy (pun intended). The idea of using a male masturbator seemed unnecessary at best, awkward at worst. But after hearing friends rave about toys like the Heaven (yes, that’s a real product), curiosity got the better of me.

So, I took the plunge. Here’s my completely unfiltered review of my first time using an automatic masturbator—the surprises, the mishaps, and whether it lived up to the hype.

Choosing My First Male Toy

Manual vs. Automatic Masturbators

I quickly learned there are two main types:

• Manual (like Fleshlights—you do the work. Consistency can be tricky — it’s hard to keep the same rhythm or intensity going for too long.)

• Automatic (toys that move/suck on their own.Less control — you can tweak the settings, but it’s not the same as having full hands-on control like a manual option)

Since I wanted the full experience, I went for an automatic "dick sucker"— Heaven

Why I Picked the "Heaven"

• 7 modes of thrusting, rotating, sucking, and vibrating pleasure.

• Nice LCD screen, easy to see battery and mode.

• Waterproof

• Meme-worthy name (how could I resist?)

Unboxing & First Impressions

Packaging & Discretion

The box was plain and nondescript—no embarrassing labels. Inside, the toy looked… intimidating. It had a sleek, techy design—more like a gadget than a sex toy.

Material & Build Quality

The sleeve was ultra-soft silicone (body-safe, thank goodness). The motor housing felt sturdy, though the buttons were a bit cheap.

The Awkward Setup Phase

Lube, Positioning, and Trial Runs

First lesson: Lube is NON-NEGOTIABLE. I used a water-based lube (silicone can damage the toy).

Second lesson: Getting the angle right matters. At first, I fumbled like a teenager with a bra clasp.

Figuring Out the Controls

The heaven had:

• 7 suction modes (gentle, rhythmic, "oh god")

The Moment of Truth: How It Actually Felt

I place a pillow between my legs, pull the sheet over it, and tuck it in under my thighs. That pillow doesn’t move, no matter how hard the machine drives.
After that, I lean back and let it go to work. I adjust the speed and stroke length until it hits just right. It’s given me some of the best solo sessions I’ve ever had.
I also picked up a cheap phone stand that hangs right above me — now I don’t have to strain my neck to use it.

Sensation Breakdown

• Thrusting：Strong automatic thrusting — fast, firm, and feels mechanical but real. The power can catch you off guard the first time; it’s almost too much drive to handle.

• Rotating：360° rotation for a tight, gripping twist — every spin hits with solid motion.Spins so fast you might lose track of rhythm, but it keeps pulling you right back in.
• Sucking：Adjustable air-pressure system — from a soft pull to a deep, steady suction.So consistent it’s almost too steady…
• Vibrating：Dual-motor vibration core — full coverage with raw, pulsing power.At max level it buzzes like a beast; stop it and everything feels too quiet.
• Licking：I haven’t used this feature much, but it leaves a lingering, tongue-like sensation.

Comparison to Manual Masturbation

 The hands-free aspect was a game-changer. After a few uses, I could really tell the difference — way better than I expected.
Once I figured out the right angle and settings, it ran smoother, hit deeper, and stayed consistent.

Honestly, it’s way better than using my hand. The feeling’s just different — more powerful and intense than anything manual.

Biggest Surprises (Good & Bad)

What Shocked Me in a Good Way

• The textured inner sleeve enhances realism and pleasure

• Way less effort than using my hand.

• Surprisingly immersive—I zoned out completely.

Things I Wish I Knew Sooner

• Cleaning is more involved due to multiple parts (inner/outer gel, cup, and shell), but manageable. 

• Noise level: Not loud, but not silent either.

• Takes practice to find the perfect settings.

Is an Automatic Masturbator Worth It?

Pros

✔️ Next-level orgasms (stronger than manual)
✔️ Hands-free convenience (great for lazy days)
✔️ Fun novelty (spices up solo play)

Cons

❌Not discreet (if you have roommates, be cautious)

Tips for First-Time Users

Best Lube for Male Toys

• Water-based (safe for all materials)

• Avoid silicone-based (can degrade the toy)

How to Clean & Maintain It

1. Rinse with warm water + mild soap.

2. Dry thoroughly (bacteria love moisture).

3. Store in a cool, dry place.

Avoiding Common Mistakes

• Don’t skip lube (friction = discomfort).

• Start slow (max speed isn’t always best).

• Charge it fully before first use.

Final Verdict: Would I Use It Again?

Yes—but not every time. It’s a weekend treat, not a daily driver. Perfect for when I want:

• A more intense orgasm

• Hands-free relaxation

• Something different from the usual

Who should buy one?

• Men curious about new sensations

• Those with privacy (no roommates/kids)

• People willing to invest in pleasure tech

Who should skip it?

• If cleanup sounds tedious

• If you prefer simplicity

Conclusion

My first time with a male masturbator was equal parts awkward and amazing. The Heaven delivered on its meme-worthy name.

Would I recommend it? If you’re open-minded and willing to experiment, absolutely. Just don’t expect it to replace your hand entirely—it’s a complement, not a replacement.