Ever been at a hangout where the conversation suddenly shifts to adult toys, leaving you a bit curious but not sure how to dive in?

Or maybe you've been browsing online, seeing all kinds of toys and wondering, "Okay, but what exactly is a dildo?"

If you're thinking about trying something new but don’t know where to start, you’re in the right spot. Let’s break it down in a way that’s easy to understand, no fuss, no frills—just the basics to get you started.

What Exactly Is a Dildo?

A dildo is a phallic-shaped object used for sexual pleasure. It’s a simple, non-mechanical toy, typically designed for penetrative use, and can be enjoyed by anyone who likes internal stimulation—whether you’re flying solo or with a partner.

While many dildos are modeled to resemble a penis, they come in all kinds of shapes, from hands and arms to tentacles and cones. Dildos have been around for ages—literally. The oldest ones date back 28,000 years! Today, they’re made from materials like silicone, glass, metal, and more, with body-safe silicone being a popular and safe choice.

Tips for Dildo Newbies

Starting out with a dildo can feel a little overwhelming, but no worries—we've got some tips to ease you in:

Start Small:

If you're new to penetration, it’s smart to begin with a smaller dildo. They come in all sorts of sizes, so check the measurements before you buy. A small, soft, and slim dildo is often a good pick to start with, and as you get more comfortable, you can explore larger options.

Use Lube:

Lube is your best friend when using a dildo. It makes everything smoother and more comfortable. For dildos made of glass or metal, you can use any kind of lube—silicone, water-based, or oil-based. But if your dildo is silicone, stick to water-based lube to keep it in good shape.

How to Use a Dildo

Here’s a quick guide to help you get started:

1. Lube Up:

   Apply plenty of lube to the tip and shaft of your dildo. Don’t hold back—more lube means a smoother experience.

2. Take Your Time:

   Start slowly, getting used to the feel of the dildo by gently rubbing it along your genitals. If you're using it vaginally, you might want to warm up by stimulating your labia and clitoris first. For anal play, start with some external stimulation around the anus before going further.

3. Explore Pleasure:

   When you’re ready, slowly insert the dildo. You don’t have to go all the way in—just do what feels right. You can try different angles and motions to see what gives you the most pleasure.

Experimenting with Techniques and Positions

Whether you’re using a dildo alone or with a partner, trying out different techniques and positions can spice things up. Vary the speed and depth to see what you like best. You can also mix things up by adding other types of stimulation, like a vibrator.

If you have a suction cup dildo, stick it to a surface like the shower wall for hands-free fun. Or try temperature play by warming or cooling your dildo if it’s made from glass or metal.

Cleaning and Care

After your playtime, keeping your dildo clean is key. Wash it with warm water and mild toy cleaner, then dry it with a clean cloth. If you have a silicone dildo, store it separately from other silicone toys to avoid any weird reactions.

Types of Dildos

Here’s a quick rundown of some popular dildo types:

1.Vibrating Dildos: Vibrating dildos add some buzz to your experience, great for both internal and external play.

2.Glass Dildos: Made of sturdy, nonporous glass,glass dildos can be warmed or cooled for extra sensation.

3.Crystal Dildos: Often called healing wands, these are minimalistic and sometimes associated with wellness vibes.

4.DoubleEnded Dildos: Perfect for sharing or for dual penetration.

5.StrapOn Dildos: Attach to a harness for handsfree fun,strapOn dildo is ideal for partnered play.

6.Representational Dildos: Designed to look just like the real deal, representational dildos are complete with veins and all.

7.NonRepresentational Dildos: These are more abstract and don’t resemble a penis at all—think sleek, sculptural designs.

8.Suction Cup Dildos: These can stick to surfaces, giving you handsfree options for all kinds of positions.

And there you have it—your quick guide to diving into the world of dildos.

Whether you’re just starting out or looking to expand your collection, remember to go at your own pace, explore what feels good, and most importantly, have fun!

Life’s short, so why not add a little extra pleasure to the mix?